“Better a little…”

February 28, 2012

“Better a little with the fear of the Lord than great wealth with turmoil.”  –Proverbs 15:16

“Turmoil” is such a strong word.  When I read about “great wealth with turmoil” I tend to think in a “Lifestyles of the Rich and Famous” sort of way; of people with indescribable amounts of money making poor choices and ending up in the headlines on a regular basis.  What I think we forget is how, compared to so many others on this earth, we have “indescribable amounts of money,” which we’re using to buy things, which are in turn sometimes causing us “turmoil.”  Or, at the very least, the Message version:  “a ton of headaches.”

For some reason I’ve been thinking a lot lately about our second apartment.  It was a tiny two bedroom, but I loved it:  it was nearly new, so it was incredibly clean, and it had a south-facing sliding glass door in the living area that looked out on the street, not another apartment.  In hindsight, I keep thinking about how small it was, but it was just exactly right for our needs at that time.  A living room, a kitchen big enough for a card table and two chairs, a bedroom, and a “bedroom” we could use as an office.  (Also a big bonus:  a laundry room, which was the deciding factor in moving there.)  That apartment represents simplicity for me:  small, clean, sparse, basic, yet pleasant–the sunny living room guaranteed that.  We didn’t have a ton of extra “stuff” because we didn’t have a ton of money (insert “we didn’t need money, we had each other” type of quote here), which kept the place clean and simple.  No turmoil, no headaches.

Let’s be real, though:  that was before kids and dogs.  If we had to fit our current family in that apartment, my feelings about it would be very different.  It wouldn’t be simple anymore; it would be cramped, crowded, and difficult.  (Where on earth would we seat everyone for dinner?)  So I’m not about to complain about the space we enjoy now.

What I need to be careful of, though, is how we fill that space.  More space doesn’t have to be filled.  What’s wrong with just enjoying….space?  Less turmoil, less headaches.

I asked my kids the other day, if they could keep just three things in their rooms, what would they be?  My pack-rat son answered immediately and decisively:  “My bed and my stuffed animals and my books.”  Even he, who is loathe to get rid of things, knew exactly what was most important to him.  (I won’t talk about how many stuffed animals and books there actually are.)  If we can keep the “stuff” in our spaces limited to what it truly important to us, keep it pared down to “a little,” we can hopefully save ourselves “a ton of headaches.”

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3 Responses to ““Better a little…””


  1. Absolutely! The more stuff you have, the more energy it takes to maintain. I’d, personally, rather use my energy elsewhere. Thanks 🙂

  2. Cole Weston Says:

    Jenn,

    Love your blog thus far. Your thoughts are both interesting and encouraging! I would ask one favor though: on my Mac these fonts are TINY. Any chance of bumping everything up a bit? I love your articles thus far. Enough thinking and consideration will break our old useless habits and lead to an easier time of life.

    I’m still fighting some specific sentimental battles, and I’m curious as to what will happen with that stuff – bearing in mind that all it does right now is bother me!

    • Jen Fletcher Says:

      Thanks so much for your encouragement! God is providing me with JUST enough encouragement to press on with this. 🙂
      I’ll have to start tackling more “sentimental stuff,” that’s something I still have trouble with so it will definitely be a learning process for me, too.
      I’ll see what I can do about the fonts…. 🙂

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