Or, “Pursuing Enough” pursues more than enough….
It’s been awhile. It’s been so long and I’m still so off-kilter that I’m not even sure I’m quite ready to start writing again…but I felt the need to check in after such a long absence. Our family got back Monday night from an eleven-day (road) trip to Disneyworld and Legoland, sponsored very generously by my parents. Six people in a twelve-passenger van; three days down, two days home (you know it’s a long trip when driving through five states is a good day). Monday through Saturday we spent at all the different parks.
Overwhelming? Yes. Wonderful? Absolutely.
The drive didn’t go nearly as badly as I anticipated; portable DVD players are beautiful things…and bringing along all the kids schoolwork they were missing out on helped, too. (Full disclosure: due to our school district’s quirky calendar, we were able to take an eleven day trip with the kids only missing three days of school. We were NOT the only people to jump on that opportunity.) My dad and husband sat up front and took turns driving, continually arguing with the GPS system and making her angry (“Recalculating!”). The rest of us spread out in back, switching places when needed, since siblings can only sit together for so long.
Our time in the parks was great…my daughter met everyone she wanted to meet, including Tinkerbell, and my son rode all the coasters he wanted to ride. My husband quickly learned how to work the Fast-Pass system (and I mean really work it), which meant that we didn’t have to wait in line more than twenty minutes for any ride we did. (It also meant blisters for my poor husband as he ran the parks to collect the things…)
And then….Monday night at 7:30 home, Tuesday morning at 8:00 back to school. There’s a nice jolt of reality for you.
I think, three days later, I’m just now starting to feel like things are getting a little back to normal; although with my son’s birthday plans this weekend (9 years old today! Happy birthday, sweet boy!) and the relentless talk of getting a new dog now that we’re home, I’m still not quite feeling settled. October is one of my favorite months of the year. I think it’s time I slowed down a minute and tried to enjoy it.
One last thought on vacations and returning home: I know that technically, what we come “home” to is just a bunch of wood and siding and insulation and metal, etc. I know that really, it’s just a bunch of “stuff” that shouldn’t really matter all that much. But after you’ve been gone for eleven days, it becomes much more than that. It’s what it represents: home base, safety, the comfort of the familiar, the “normal,” Home. Night after night of sleeping in hotel beds gives you a new appreciation for your own bed; night after night of sleeping in hotel rooms gives you a new appreciation for your own room, which my children disappeared into the moment they got home, introducing their new stuffed animals to their old ones. Right now I’m so grateful for this house, this home, and for the comfort of (slowly) getting back into a routine.
It’s good to be back.