I have to admit I’ve never really understood the obsession with Halloween. I love autumn; it’s my absolute favorite time of year, and fall “stuff” sucks me in each and every time it rolls around. (One of the biggest reasons I’ll never make it as a true minimalist: fall decor.) I’m relieved when the temp starts to cool; I love the bite in the air each morning and bundling up in jackets as we head out the door to school. I love the changing leaves; though for all the huge trees in our yard we really only have two pretty ones. I love crunching through the fallen leaves as we walk out to get the paper, or the mail…in spite of the fact that our neighbors on either side keep fastidious lawns that manage to make ours look more than a little unkempt. (I believe the word is “trashy.” lol)
What I don’t get is the gore. The desire to “decorate” with corpses and zombies and skeletons…..and I’m always struck, each year, at how we as Americans wail about the cost of everything, and yet people will shell out their hard-earned dollars for things like inflatable spiders to sit in their front yard.
I don’t get it.
October is the time where I’m finally willing to start walking to and from school….and it’s also the month where I had to change the route we took when my kids were younger, because there’s a house on one street with zombies overtaking the front yard. I don’t mean a few scary items; I mean the entire front yard is covered with creatures….it truly looks like a graveyard come to life. They have to have over thirty creepies on their lawn, including a large Satan-like creature suspended above their front door. Each year as it goes up I realize how grateful I am that our neighbors at our last house got into Christmas instead of Halloween. (To their credit, the whole mob scene is taken down promptly on November 1st. No lingering zombies hanging out for Thanksgiving dinner or anything.)
That’s the stuff I don’t get.
Time magazine states that this year, “Americans are expected to spend a record $8 billion on Halloween-related products and activities this year, up 17% from 2011.” (From “More Trick Than Treat,” October 29th issue).
$8 billion….
I don’t get it.
We got costumes for the kids; my daughter’s was actually her birthday present. I bought not even $20 worth of candy, which might not sound like much, but it’s a ton; trust me. I think we’re covered. I’m calling it good.
Because there’s loads of other things I’d rather spend my money on.
My youngest is SO excited this year. I’m not exactly sure where it’s coming from. The kids have always dressed up and gone to town to trick or treat, but this year he’s been almost obsessed with it. Planning his costume and such have taken hours of his time this month. He’s counting down the days on the calendar. He seems to have this vision of what the whole experience should be, and I keep telling him to just relax and have fun. It’s been kinda weird. Definitely not my favourite holiday.
The worst part about “visions” like that is the disappointment if things don’t live up to expectations. I hope he ends up having a fun night that’s everything he imagined!
This is exactly what I keep telling him. Expecting perfection always leads to disappointment.
I couldn’t agree more. Halloween is the stuff that nightmares are made of. If my children knew nothing of it, we probably wouldnt even dress up!
It’s sad, really….it could be fun to let the little ones dress up and get candy. Somehow we’ve lost sight of the “fun” and gotten all “creepy”…..