Hubby: You’re nesting!
Me: No, I’m panicking!!
Last week we celebrated my niece’s first birthday–my niece, who arrived a month early. A few weeks before that, a friend delivered her twins ten weeks early.
If things go as planned, we will be having a baby in three months. But nothing about this has been very planned, and for that reason, plus those back-to-back reminders that things can happen very quickly, I’m a little on edge.
Someone asked recently if we had the baby’s room ready. “We have a room, does that count for anything?” was my response; and I confessed to a friend later that I felt genuinely bad for the kid. The state of the nursery was “proof that this baby is a total afterthought.” She promptly informed me, “No, it’s proof this baby is not your first.” Good point…
Regardless, I decided that it was time to do what I could in the still-looks-like-an-office bedroom. (It’s hard to get away from the office look when there’s a large computer armoire sitting smack dab in the middle of the main wall.) I’d been moving random pieces of stowed furniture into the hallway, piece by piece, for my husband to carry down the stairs to the basement; so far it’s all things we do want to keep. I had finally cleared off and set up the changing table, and last week I decided to stop waiting for the extra set of hands I assumed I needed and I assembled the crib by myself. (Yes, all by myself. Go me!) I washed all the bedding and curtains, made up the bed, changed out and moved the curtain rods, and hung the curtains. My niece christened the crib with its first nap the very next day.
Later in the week, I finally started clearing out the file cabinet, and am on the verge of–gasp!–getting rid of it completely. I know myself, and I know that the file cabinet is feeding my paper clutter addiction. I’ve changed a few things around with our filing system, which I hope to post soon. (Until then, you can look at my hero and inspiration here.)
Finally, and this will seem silly, I sat down with a piece of paper and inventoried every single thing left in the room and closet that didn’t belong there. (Or, rather, that no longer belonged there.) It probably sounds like an extra set of work to do all the writing, but I’ve used this method before, in the garage, and it’s so much easier for me to look at a list on paper, go through it, and write down what I want to do with each item. Once I’m done, I can look at the list, see that x, y, and z are supposed to go to Goodwill, and just walk in the room with a bag and gather it all up. For some reason, walking in the room with a bag, without a list, means I just stand there and turn around in circles. A lot. Then I get distracted by something and nothing at all gets accomplished.
Two more pieces of kids’ furniture to drag to the basement, a trip to Goodwill, and doing something with that computer cabinet and we’re ready.
Well…the room is ready.
2 thoughts on “Ready or not….”
You sound like you are well on your way to “ready”. You are certainly much farther ahead than I was with my unexpected third baby! I’m excited for you guys. Hmmm, I need to go through those paper files, too. It’s easy to stick this or that in there rather than actually dealing with it.
Paper clutter is the absolute hardest thing for me to deal with. So much of it seems “official;” and invariably I’ll get rid of something and then find out I needed it. Online bill pay has been a huge help, though.