After the longest Christmas break I have ever known (literally, not figuratively) the kids started back to school today and routines seem to be slowly creeping back in. I’m frustrated with the lack of writing I’ve done through December, but the month seemed to be full of “urgent” things (not necessarily “important” things) and I spent it trying to keep my head above water. Now the holidays are done and the calendar is comparatively empty. Hopefully January will be slightly more productive–in lots of ways.
While I didn’t do much writing in December, I was constantly thinking of things I wanted to write about. I apologize in advance if I end up dumping some of them out in January.
My favorite discovery this Christmas was a guide to gift-giving that a friend referenced on Facebook; she’d seen it in our local paper. They referred to it as “the four-gift Christmas:” “Something you want, something you need, something to wear, and something to read.” I was so excited for this little saying; I’d been struggling with the vague idea of “I want a smaller Christmas,” but defining what that looked like was nearly impossible: what does that mean?? Once I read that phrase, I realized that the items we’d gotten the kids could be plugged in to those categories and I only needed two more gifts to be done. (One admission: we actually did the five-gift Christmas, because I think it’s incredibly unfair that Santa gets to be the hero each year: my husband and I supplied a “want” gift, too.) The definition of “need” was also something I wrestled with; let’s be real, these kids don’t need anything. So I decided the word meant “useful” and things fell into place well.
(I do think that next year I’ll do more investigation into what grandparents are getting the kids. If I had known that my daughter would be receiving hairbands from each set of grandparents, I would not have made them her “something to wear.”)
The other nice situation about Christmas this year is that so much of what we received was to replace something else. A new comforter (out with the old!). A new bread machine–that really, consistently works! (Away with the broken one!) So instead of filling up our house with another layer of accumulation, it’s been much easier to really apply the “one in, one out” rule.
Just a few thoughts on simplifying Christmas…I hope everyone has had a great holiday season and is enjoying the return to “normal!”