I’ve been thinking a lot lately about how glad I’ll be to say goodbye to this year. It’s funny how you start each year optimistic and full of enthusiasm over what it might bring….this year started innocently enough with my youngest being sick. We’ve said repeatedly that she’s the easiest child we’ve ever had, but she is, by FAR, the absolute worst when it comes to being sick. So we endured a few weeks of two-year-old induced misery, followed by me going to the doctor for “this weird spot on my back….also, I think I might have pulled a muscle.” It turned out both those things were related and I actually had shingles.
That didn’t even get us through February.
This year was marked–strongly–by one of my children dealing with severe depression. The weight of that anchor pulled the entire house down most days.
There were petty nuisances: the “two-week” bathroom redo that took a full month. There were truly awful shocks: the horrific accidental death of a friend’s child. And we are sending the year out with three cases of bronchitis and one sinus infection….and my poor husband with something that has yet to be officially diagnosed.
But that can’t be what I focus on this year. It overwhelms me when I look at it that way. There have been beautiful things about this year, too.
- The twenty-year wedding anniversary trip to Colorado. (Brief, but kid-free.)
- The adoption of our former foster kiddos into a wonderful home.
- My older daughter discovering musical theater (and a strong talent for it).
- The arrival (finally!) of antidepressants for my child, who is returning from the edge.
- My sister being in town from overseas twice!–one visit for Christmas.
- Month-long chaos or not, we have a lovely “new” bathroom. (I’m sure I’ll be posting quite a bit about that particular adventure.)
- We’ve celebrated scary birthdays this year (we have a teenager!) and are now parenting a 13, 11, and 3-year-old. Typing that looks weird, but I’ve pretty much gotten used to our goofy arrangement of kids.
- Homeschooling keeps getting better and better.
- I cleaned out the unfinished part of the basement so well that my son asked if he and his sister could turn it into a Lego room. (!!!)
- Laughter is returning to our home….though it never really left completely.
And how can you despise a year where a game called “Rancor Pillow Beat” was created by my 3-year-old? (It involves lots of running, screaming, and pounding Daddy with pillows. Oh, and laughing. Also lots of laughing.)
Taking a deep breath in preparation for 2017….